8.08.2016

Let's Talk Oral Sex

Stepping away from talking erotica today... let's talk about you, in the bedroom, and how is it going in I know every woman wants to believe she is the best little cocksucker on the planet... men will tell you, not all BJ's are a skyrocket to delight; so, how do you become the one and only because no one has ever done it better. Do get better!

Research...read, practice, read, practice more... and before you know it that gag reflex is under control and so is that cock straining for your mouth...

You will be ready, willing, and able... oh, and for the love of all things holy...

swallow and keep sucking because a man can have a long torturous orgasm despite claims to the contrary, just because he never has, doesn't mean he can't.

Fellatio 

A Guide to Blowjobs

But maybe you're in public or situation where going down might be noticed...
That's right, be ready, willing, and able to give the man a hand ;)



The best sex lessons I ever received were from a Dom who was a big fan of the hand job. Tips included experimenting with different oils or lubes, because nothing ruins a handjob like a sticky ass lube that is more like wall paper glue than sex aide..

there's a brand of Apricot Oil has a fun little grit that is especially appreciated by the older man who has lost a little sensation...no I'm not sharing the brand... your homework is to find the oil or lube right for your man...
The other tip was to literally man-handle that length of turgid flesh ...
**I read that descriptor in a competitor's erotica and laughed my ass off, then vowed to never use    
     turgid flesh in a novel ever... so I'm using it here because my edits are done, my stress relieved, 
     and I can laugh and be joyful again...or at least until the next round of edits...
In other words, don't be afraid to bite, pull or ring that gloriously hard cock like a dishrag.

Cunnilingus

Let's face it, a lot of men are not great clit lickers...

And then there are men who barely go down and you're body is taking off like it's the Fourth of July.... 

This next link, is one I really enjoyed...
Maybe its the author's imaginative references like:
 "that motherfucker smells sweeter than a bowl of steamin’ crawdaddies."
or...
"Pubic hairs are to eating pussy what cavities are to dental hygiene." 
I found the entire read entertaining an after two days of edits, my brain enjoyed very, very much...
have your man read A Guide to Pussy Eating at Tickleberry
Now go make someone's day...

14 comments:

Kimberly B said...

Hehe! Oral is one of my favorites! To give and receive!

Pettalwing said...

Great info!

Unknown said...

Oral sex is my favorite time of sex

whats on your mind? said...

Haha never heard that term of reference before. Sweeter than a bowl of steamin crawdaddies. Lmao and most i learned from a bj was hands on experience as well ;)

Danni Lane said...

Hahaha Not so interested in the first half of this post ;-) but I'll be reading the guide near the bottom as well as sharing it with the girlfriend. Keep Writing Lady! BTW... 8 days.. just saying.

Kelli Robinson said...

Thank you for posting this. I strive to learn as much as I can and to be the best little dock sucker I can be to please my man.

Unknown said...

Roxy...this is great info for the vanilla and those of us who rock some chocolate sauce with sprinkles :)

Lisa Manns said...

Roxy this is a great blog for the vanillas as well as those of us that rock chocolate sauce and sprinkles! Loved it!

Lisa Manns said...

Roxy...this is great info for the vanilla and those of us who rock some chocolate sauce with sprinkles :)

Lovely Lila said...

Great post Roxy!! I love learning new tips and tricks... especially with having challenges myself. It's always nice to have a few secrets in your back pocket to surprise your partner with!!!

Karen said...

I think I died laughing at "turgid flesh", lol. Good choice to opt it out in the books! Also, coconut oil does an amazing job for hand jobs too and smells delicious too.

Katie Kelly said...

Sounds hawt. ;)

Roxy Harte said...

@Whatsonyourmind ... you are entered, but will need followup info to contact you if you win one of the drawings

Roxy Harte said...

I have all the entries registered to be entered in the drawing!